Sorted!

but my FB status is going to stay the same for some while.  I may want to block a few people I didn’t want as friends anyway from the “real world” (they found me, I very definitely did not go looking for them) .. rest assured I shall not be blocking anyone from the virtual world! (before anyone decides they want my head on a plate)

So The Admirer and I had a long talk last night over a very nice curry and a few beers over the word “disappointed” and what it meant to me and obviously what it meant to him .. I also asked him why the hell he had gone off at me as he did as I knew that my FB status wasn’t the only reason!  I also put forward some of your comments (cunningly disguised as my own) about his controlling nature etc etc and it was all noted .. so let’s watch this space!

His going off on one was (apparently) sheer, utter frustration and some of these were in no particular order, but numbers 3 and 5 are fairly high on the list …

1. Frustrated at the fact that I won’t commit to very much .. I explained my reasons.
2. Frustrated that our “social” life is limited .. again I explained that until a line was drawn under me and Pig I didn’t want to go totally public.
3. Frustrated that his boss and the other Pro completely take the piss.
4. Frustrated that the majority of the people he teaches are complete twats.
5. Frustrated that the mother of his child is a manipulative cow.
6. Frustrated that his flat needs time and money spent on it (not masses, but certainly it needs decorating and new carpets and generally smartening up).
7. Frustrated because of number 6 and he doesn’t like inviting his friends round because they all live in much nicer places than his (and before anyone goes off at me, I can see his point).
8. Frustrated because his back is totally fucked and he is in pain at the moment 24/7.

All in all, he is a tad frustrated and feeling sorry for himself .. so I am massaging his ego gently!