The Admirer’s daughter!

I may have mentioned, but S has a daughter (6).  He hasn’t seen her since last year.

Potted re-cap (because I can’t be bothered to go find) ..

Shag = daughter

He has seen daughter “E” as much as is possible considering his job and the irregular hours and contributes to her upbringing in £’s as many right-minded person would.

Last year he was supposed to take her away for a week with his parents but the mother decided that Cornwall was too far away and said that E was not happy with the situation (???)  E:mails went back and forth and S said that he felt it was best that he opted out of the situation.  The mother wanted him to stay with “them” and take her out on day trips!! ???

Several e:mails ensued, but nothing has been heard since July.

Christmas came and went .. a thank you card, written by the mother, signed by E.

Birthday came and went .. ditto lame card .. signed by E .. (can the child not write (or copy) ???

Last Friday we went out for a meal with LizandMike (S’s supposed best friends on the planet). 

Now, let’s get this straight, I am supposed to tell S the minutae of my life .. otherwise “we aren’t communicating”! ..

HE DID NOT TELL ME THAT “THE MOTHER” AND LIZ WERE BEST FRIENDS!

So, our “we’re getting a house together” came up and I added that I didn’t want us to get an “uber expensive” house together and for “her” to think he was suddenly minted .. and the added monthly expense that it would entail – because it would be mainly my money buying the house!  Oh f*ck .. it all kicked off at that point .. BUT ..

it would appear that the mother tells one side of the story and S another .. and I know who I believe!

It came out from Liz that “the mother” had tried “every avenue” to contact him to make amends???  WTF!!??  She has been pleading the fact that “there is a little girl out there who misses her daddy! .. double WTF!! (at which point S cried – BECAUSE WE KNOW THAT – he misses her and I have said I will support him in whatever he decides to do but he shouldn’t be held to ransom)!  He was stupid, and male – FACT. 

Even Liz admitted that the pregnancy was pre-meditated (the mother already has a boy by another father .. oh, and she’s one of those holistic twats) .. and S said that he wasn’ t prepared to be an unpaid baby-sitter – which is not unreasonable – because that is what she appears to want!

So why should S pay for her duplicity, cunning .. whatever ..

anyways .. I’m angry ..