Comments on: Thank you .. http://cataclismical.wordpress.com/2009/06/22/thank-you-3/ It's my perogative to have less of a mind than the rest of you, OK????? Sun, 13 Dec 2009 20:25:59 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: tenderhooligan http://cataclismical.wordpress.com/2009/06/22/thank-you-3/#comment-4150 tenderhooligan Tue, 23 Jun 2009 17:30:42 +0000 http://cataclismical.wordpress.com/?p=1177#comment-4150 I really, really, really do not like this guy. I really, really, really do not like this guy.

]]> By: anotherblogger http://cataclismical.wordpress.com/2009/06/22/thank-you-3/#comment-4149 anotherblogger Tue, 23 Jun 2009 16:18:47 +0000 http://cataclismical.wordpress.com/?p=1177#comment-4149 there is no easy way to handle this. It all depends on what you want. Why are you avoiding the confrontation? Are you hoping he'll crack from your mindgames and confess? Are you hoping more evidence accumulates so you can BAM! hit him with it all - a watertight case so to speak? Are you hoping he'll drop the other woman and run back to you? Whatever you choose you have to do something soon. The mindgames you're playing will only serve to have YOU tying yourself in knots. This has to be dealt with for YOUR sake (cos, frankly, screw him) Decide what the best possible outcome for you is first: 1. do you want to kick him out on his arse and never see him again (this may be the best and most satisfying). In which case you may need to wait for more evidence to accumulate and then you can explode with impunity. 2. Do you want him to fall on his knees and kiss your feet and promise never to misbehave again (also satisfying but tricky to accomplish if his heart's not in it) Keeping him dangling is doing you no good. I know. I've been in a rather similar situation myself and I avoided doing anything for such a long time I made myself ill. Don't make my mistake. Deal with this properly. Email me if you want to talk more about it. there is no easy way to handle this. It all depends on what you want. Why are you avoiding the confrontation? Are you hoping he’ll crack from your mindgames and confess? Are you hoping more evidence accumulates so you can BAM! hit him with it all – a watertight case so to speak? Are you hoping he’ll drop the other woman and run back to you?

Whatever you choose you have to do something soon. The mindgames you’re playing will only serve to have YOU tying yourself in knots. This has to be dealt with for YOUR sake (cos, frankly, screw him)

Decide what the best possible outcome for you is first: 1. do you want to kick him out on his arse and never see him again (this may be the best and most satisfying). In which case you may need to wait for more evidence to accumulate and then you can explode with impunity.

2. Do you want him to fall on his knees and kiss your feet and promise never to misbehave again (also satisfying but tricky to accomplish if his heart’s not in it)

Keeping him dangling is doing you no good. I know. I’ve been in a rather similar situation myself and I avoided doing anything for such a long time I made myself ill. Don’t make my mistake. Deal with this properly.

Email me if you want to talk more about it.

]]> By: Breeza http://cataclismical.wordpress.com/2009/06/22/thank-you-3/#comment-4147 Breeza Tue, 23 Jun 2009 00:15:08 +0000 http://cataclismical.wordpress.com/?p=1177#comment-4147 Come to LA! :) Come to LA! :)

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