Time out ..
Thanks Dan .. dinner was lovely! (and you shouldn’t have paid .. next one’s on me) … although henceforth you are known as Julie 
The Admirer is in Cornwall at a Pro-am .. a message sent to his chiropracter from him earlier this evening …
Ouch! Tough tough golf course. Back was good just need a good blonde and a massage now! Thanks again for your help. TA
Now .. I’m sorry, but I’ve not mentioned it before .. and being me, I don’t like to but .. condoms .. we don’t use them! He has a stack .. there was 1 in his washbag ………. ?????
So I sent to my friend .. Julie (NOT Dan) .. no, actually, I sent it to TA .. accidentally (of course) ..
Thanxs 4 this evening hon. Now all i need to do is dial-a-shag! Lol. Cat
I got a rather terse ..
Not sure if you sent that on purpose or not. But check your sent messages. Thanks.
I replied back ..
Oops it was a joke .. Julie lives in ‘gay’ Sydney .. they do that there apparently! Xxx
Bollox .. I’ve had enough! What’s ok for him to be free and easy with his sexist, derogatory remarks, is obviously not ok for me .. it’s ok for him to text that he is “bored silly” on a “free” holiday .. or that he “needs a good blonde” .. but it’s not ok for me to want tenderness, affection or (actually) anything else .. I’m there guys!
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Leave!!
Strong kick, square in the nuts, then leave!
HURRAH!!!!!! Now GET OUT!!! Don’t dally and don’t think, just leave!
p.s. if you’re not using condoms and he’s sleeping around, you might want to get tested…guys are nice that way, believe me.
Just go, today. Just pack up and leave.
stop the games and just go. Really.
Do you know what I did when I found condoms? I thought about sticking pins in them but thought that unfair to the girl. Then I was going to write somethign on the packaging but figured hed not notice so I put them back and pretended I hadn’t found them and decided to just let it lie.
Eventually, something in me snapped (I came across more clues) some weeks later and I asked him about them. I’d also found a box of three before then. He said he’d “been given them by a friend” who’d just come back from holiday (who gives his married friend a box of condoms as a souvenir?!?!).
Honestly, though. Stop the games. You’ll achieve nothing by it but make yourself foolish. Just do the right thing and kick him out or leave. You’ll feel a squillion times better once you’ve given him the boot (and maybe see him grovel a little – that’s always quite satisfying, too). You’re worth more than this. Really don’t let this go on, dragging it out.
I think that it’s definitely time to confront all this and move on.
Go. Go. Go. Go. Please.
Coming back?? xx